Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Survivor's Day



Today is Dia De Los Muertos, the Day of the Dead. I am not Latin American, but found myself contemplating the holiday on this morning's run. Leaves littered the trail, and more were falling in the bright sunlight. The transition to winter was occurring before my eyes. I thought about those that have died in my life. That mixture of emotions that always accompanies such thoughts flowed through me, left behind with each stride. Then, I started thinking about parts of myself that have died, and been reborn. I started thinking in terms of all the seasons of change in my life, the many things that I have survived whether it was trauma from a dog attack, or my sister's suicide. I visualized all people in the world, and thought about how each of us is a survivor. We've all had struggles, illnesses, traumas, abuses, losses, defeats, challenges, heart break .... things that we have survived. I started thinking, "why don't we have a day that we call 'Survivor's Day?'" You know.... a day that we all celebrate being resilient, being strong, being hopeful, and nurturing every person's ability to rise above life's challenges. So, for me, every year, November 1, Dia De Los Muertos will be the day of the dead in which I celebrate the resilience of the human spirit and the beauty of living.... Survivor's Day.

4 comments:

Melissa said...

Beautiful words-- I will celebrate with you and for you.

jennifer said...

I love it! I am writing it on my birthdays calender now so I don't forget next November 1st. Thank you ... for so many things that are all about you being you.

Cheryl Arkison said...

It isn't celebrated because for Survivors, every day is Survivors Day. But you are right, the rest of us need to celebrate it too. Yeah Heather!

valerie h. said...

so lovely, i agree! especially since nov. 1st is also my sweet baby girl's birthday! :)